Lolita's sindrome

Hace dos noches,mienstras pasaba mi hora 13 de estar despierta y esperaba a que me vinieran a buscar (la vida del peaton es miserable!!), entablé una conversacion con una amiga sobre que ibamos hacer despues de estos parciales.. Yo le conteste que ibamos para el carnival parade de la zona colonial(abacus.. propaganda gratis). A lo que ella replico que de eso no sabia , mas que si sabia su disfraz para Halloween. Lolita.

But why lolita? -Because she´s naughty- Naughty?!! She´s wicked!! , i said.
Lolita has that certain innocence, but at the same time wickedness in her eyes that some men find hipnotizing. Now a day we do have a lot of lolita likes.Girls in their teens that explode their sexuality without even knowing what is it yet. Or even worst girls waking the monster of lust in older men. That will be a type of lolita sindrome.
But The one i found out wednesday night talking with my friend is slighty different.
The reason that she picked up that costume, is the empowering meaning of it.
Indeed lolita was a girl..but hell she dominate the man in the book(i dont remember the name of the character, you might as well rent the movie), just with her look. She had power over him, so much that he couldnt live without her. And all that with her seduction, and sexuality, and yeah being a bitch.
Then i realized,that is a fact that men rule the world, the money perhaps, but as i quote my friend ¨women have power in bed and in the homë, you want it or not.

So i guess that in any part of our lives all girls have been lolitas, queriendo o no (pq muchas se convierten en objeto de deseo de hombres mayores que tienen una mente un poco enfermiza..eso es algo que no se pretende). Y otras queremos de una forma u otra, dominar al sexo opuesto. O solamente tener poder.. Pero este solo nos puede traer mas problemas o infelicidad, isnt Daddy??